Self-pleasing is all too common and has become a cultural norm. We try to be the center of attention, and what we want to say and do often comes out as self-conscious or as we’re trying to get away from something. We feel better as we’re doing it, but all the while, we’re also allowing others to get upset or feel hurt.
This is the exact mentality that lead to the demise of the French Revolution. The French felt they were being taken for granted and were being treated as a non-human species. It’s a mindset that seems to be getting worse as we’ve become less tolerant of other people’s feelings.
The thing is, we don’t deserve to be treated that way. If you’re treating others like that, you’re not treating them as you would like to be treated. You are taking their humanity away.
This is a common behavior in the world of internet marketing. When you put your brand or company name on a website or put a post on your blog or blog about your product or service, you are putting your own personal brand and feelings on display. Your brand is your personality, and your feelings are what you are bringing to the forefront of your online existence.
It’s also a way of saying that you don’t value your customers. You value your customers based on how their feelings seem to affect your business. You value them based on how they feel about you, how they think your company is doing, etc. This sounds like a lot of self-righteousness, but that’s why its so important: this is what you are really doing when you treat others like you would like to be treated.
People who do it wrong are actually worse than people who do it right. They have no clue how to treat others, how to be there for others, how to take care of others, how to do their job without making them feel like a fool, etc. It’s like the difference between someone who is a good person and someone who is a great person.
It is difficult for everyone to know how to treat others, especially strangers you have never met before. How do you know who to treat with respect and how to treat others? When you are a person pleaser, you tend to treat others as you would like them to be treated. And thats a pretty bad thing.
One of the things that makes being a “people pleaser” so difficult is that it makes people feel like they have to be nice to strangers. “I’m not going to be nice to you” is a typical reaction. But being nice to strangers makes you feel like you are doing something for everyone, which you may not be doing.
That’s why we need to understand how to treat others so that we are capable of being nice to everyone. And before you start putting down people who show respect to others, remember that there is a fine line between being “nice” and being “mean.” We are all capable of good and bad behavior. And being nice and being mean are not the same thing. Being nice and being mean are different things, but you can’t be nice to someone and then be mean to them.
I think most people have a hard time with that. And I think the only way to be a nice person is to be kind. One of the most effective ways to be kind is to respect people. Respect is something that you want to want to give to others, because it is something you want to give back to them. The idea that someone has to like you to be a good person is a total fallacy.