In our quest to improve our lives and our world, we often fall short, but often our efforts aren’t even noticed. We fail to realize that our actions are a result of our thoughts. That is why we need to pay attention to the thoughts we have.
I’m not sure how well this will work for you, but I have had multiple clients who have had me give them advice on how to be a better person in their relationships. They tell me they are now able to enjoy a much more satisfying relationship as a result of the advice I gave them. I’ve heard other people go on to tell me their relationships were better for their actions.
I have a friend who is a counselor who is really good at helping people to improve their relationships. He has given me advice on how to be more understanding, kind, loving, and helpful to my clients. He tells me that the results are much better in these relationships because people are becoming more aware of each other’s actions.
This is very true. When people are in a relationship where their partner is “just showing up”, they rarely have many real conversations. I have clients who often go on to tell me that they are much happier because they have conversations with their partners. They become more involved in the other person’s life. Their emotions are more likely to be validated and they feel more comfortable in the other person’s presence.
I would think this is a natural reaction to being in a relationship where the person simply showing up is the person. So I think people are becoming more aware that they have to make those first few conversations. I have clients who are very aware that they have to make those first few conversations. They are more alert to their partner’s emotions and more willing to address them. They communicate better with their partner when they do address them.
I would think that we would also see a trend in couples communicating more. One of my clients, who is a musician, told me that she feels like her relationships have improved since she started to communicate with her partner more. Her partner is also more aware of her emotions and wants to be more involved in their lives because they are becoming more comfortable in the other persons presence.
So there is some evidence that communicating with your partner improves your relationship. But I also think that couples who are more comfortable being with each other are also more likely to have longer intimate relationships. There are a lot of factors that come into play here, but I think the most important ones are communication and sex. Being able to talk to your partner about your feelings is a huge boost to your relationship. And that’s not to say that you can’t still have sex.
Communication is one of the biggest keys to an intimate relationship. If you can talk about what you’re feeling, you’re likely to be able to make more of it. And sex is probably the most important. In my own research and experience, couples who were able to have sex more often were more likely to be emotionally close and have longer intimate relationships.
But can having sex actually make you more intimate? Sure, if your partner does have sex. But that’s just the icing on the cake. The icing on the cake is when you feel the most intimate with your partner because he or she is actually expressing your feelings.
Now while sex may make you feel like you’re actually emotionally close, that’s just not the case. Most people don’t feel like they’re emotionally close when they’re not actually physically close. When you’re not physically close, you don’t really feel close. And when you do feel close, it’s usually not because you’re actually close to your partner. Instead it’s just because you’re having sex.