I think a lot of people are afraid to say “no” when it comes to sex. Maybe it is because they are afraid of the consequences of saying “yes.” But they need to realize that they are living in a culture of “no,” and that it is okay to say “yes” to sex.
There is a difference between thinking no and no. It is the difference between thinking you’re not ready to have sex and you’re not ready for it. Because in the latter scenario, if you do it, someone will definitely take the blame. For this reason, people who are scared of sex should be scared of sex. And they should be told to just say no.
I agree. And I feel very comfortable saying that a girl should be scared about sex. I am also a man, and I know that I have no idea if I would ever have sex with a girl. I mean, I guess I could if I wanted to, but I just don’t know. And with the way society has turned into, I guess, over-saturated media, I just don’t want to have sex. I just don’t know.
This is a very real concern, and it’s one that can be a real burden for people. I’m not talking about the general idea of “not having sex,” but rather the specific fear that sex might make some of the worst parts of your life worse.
A lot of people have this fear that sex with someone will make you do something awful. This is often because sex with someone is something you do for fun. You get to play with somebody you have little or no emotional attachment to. The good news is that sex with someone is an opportunity to do something more meaningful with someone you don’t have a lot of emotional attachment to.
Sex with someone has a lot of negative connotations. For example, if you’re thinking of going for a threesome with someone and don’t know if you’re ready, you might feel like you’re doing something wrong by not doing it. But if you’re not thinking of doing something awful, you’re probably not thinking of doing something awful.
Well, you can always just go out for a threesome with someone you dont have emotional attachment to. But you really shouldnt if youre not thinking of doing something awful. You can have an emotional attachment to someone and if s/he doesnt have the same attachment to you and you feel like you would be a good person to have sex with, you can still have sex with someone who also has an emotional attachment to you.
Sure, you can be a jerk and have a threesome with someone you dont have emotional attachment to, but that doesnt change the fact that you’re not being a jerk. All you’re doing is saying “I dont like you.” If you really do want to be a jerk, you should probably be a jerk. Just do it with someone you dont have emotional attachment to.
I don’t know about you, but if I have to choose between a friend or a lover, I usually choose my friend. But this is not always true. Plenty of women find it difficult to be friends with someone they dont relate to. On top of that, some people are just way too needy. I personally never had an emotional attachment to a guy that I was friends with, because all we ever talked about was his penis.